Giving is the act of turning over the possession or control of something to someone without cost or exchange and also passing over “trust” to someone. It is important in a relationship that we give to our partner our time, our thoughts and sometimes our possessions, like “gifts” in order to exhibit affection and show that you care. When you are in a relationship it is no longer all about what YOU want. For some people the idea of sharing themselves is not natural. There are many people who may have had a negative experience or have been taken advantage of in the past, so they are much more guarded and almost selfish of their time and money. There are many things we give when we are in a relationship that are often taken for granted, but the small things do not go unnoticed. We can give someone our attention, a compliment, an offer to help, protection, a meal, a kind gesture;and even as little as a smile that can go a long way.
One of the top 3 traits (if not the #1 trait) that every single person says they want in a person is “Honesty”. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy where it comes to a relationship. It seems ridiculous to most people to lie to someone about who they are and what they are looking for, but in the world of dating, most singles complain that people end up CHANGING after they pass the honey moon phase. If you haven’t experienced it yet or have learned the hard way, living a lie is challenging and often you’re lies are revealed. Karma has a way of showing your true colors. There is absolutely no benefit to pretending to be someone that you‘re not. Especially if what you truly desire is long-term relationship based on compatibility.
So many people struggle with ways to be interesting. The first thing to consider about being interesting is that YOU are interested in the person you are with! Showing an interest FIRST in your partner and asking questions about them that open up conversation is a great start. People are attracted to those that keep them engaged and involved. This is why going to different events at Meet Market Adventures will help in exploring new people and activities that you’ve never done. You should think of great conversation topics and make sure that you are up to date on the things that are going on in the world. Maybe you want to discuss new fashion trends or social media platforms that many people don’t know a lot about. If there is a particular hobby or interest that you have it’s a way to involve and your partner by sharing your passions. Be opinionated but not rude. Be daring but not foolish. Tell or share a good story. Be courageous! Standing out in the crowd is not a bad thing when you are engaging and not self-centred.
Stay tuned for Part 4 of our Blog series until next week. If you would like more great dating, match making, and relationship tips visit me at www.datingloveandsextips.com.
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