Too Much Information About Who You Are

Apr 29, 2010 No Comments »

So it’s the 3rd or 4th date and you told her that you love Baywatch! Those babes running on the beach just make your mouth water. You’ve mentioned that you’re PMS’ing and don’t want to sit in the theatre for 2 hours otherwise you’ll kill someone!

Ahhhhhhh ladies and gentlemen, there are certain things that you just shouldn’t mention so soon!

Here are a few things you should avoid talking about or at least not excessively!

1. EX’S!!! You met someone new, so it’s a new slate. Anyone who talks excessively about their past partners should ask themselves “am I really over them?”

2. Favorite sexual pleasures with ex’s. When your relationship turns physical, the other person will unconsciously be wondering if they measure up!

3. Talk for hours about your pet! He’s a cute puppy, your cat’s adorable, but seriously, ‘ex’s and pets” TMI – keep it for your therapist!

4. Ladies, please don’t mention the fact that you’re 37 and you’re clock is ticking. Enjoy and get to know someone doesn’t mean letting them know they could be a potential donor.

5. Gents, well it’s about SPORTS!!! Unless she’s a crazed fan, but it’s a turn off when you’re babbling about the teams, the scores and she’s not even aware of the difference between a touchdown and a goal! Save this stuff for a night out with the boys!

In the beginning, dating is about getting to know someone. So be a good listener. Ask questions, and from those answers you’re asking more questions. You want to know what you have in common from being a sushi lover to what’s their favorite movie, are they are a lover of dance or art, are they couch potatoes or night owls, do you share similar values, beliefs and so on. Dating is fun, and should not be a major effort, if it is; then it’s time to stop dating this person, and move on.

Be yourself, enjoy and remember….be with someone that makes you laugh!

Talk soon,

Terri Giosia
www.terrigiosia.com
Singles-Dating coach

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