First Date Tips From a Pickup Artist’s Point of View

May 29, 2010 No Comments »

I’m going to assume that people reading these blogs aren’t looking for a fling, but are in fact hoping to find someone special and maybe even settle down one day. That means that this article won’t appeal to you literally, and you shouldn’t take it as first date instructions. What you should do is read it and try to understand why it works, because this technique has helped pickup artists win over women and men “out of their league,” and the concept that makes these things work can and should work for you.

So here is the method I’ve followed almost point for point on several dates in the past, and all of those dates turned out better than I’d willingly admit here:

Some dates sprung from online encounters and others started right in a club upon first meeting, but the opening of the first date always goes the same. When I greet the girl, I express a few positive sentiments about the day, the atmosphere or the surroundings, while using very distinctly positive words. “This is such an upbeat bar,” seems simple enough, but believe it or not, that “upbeat” becomes associated with me.

The next step involves leading the other person to say something—honest and true—that sets them up for wanting to be spontaneous, exciting or something of the sort. This is as simple as steering the conversation somewhere that allows for “Have you ever been out with someone dull, unwilling to be spontaneous?” and then “It’s good, because I can tell you’re not like that.” They agree, and at the same time program themselves to not be boring.

The next tip that I followed on all my first dates was to do something intriguing, and not being subtle about it at all. For me, this was a magic trick. “How’d you do that?” “Do that again?” “Show me another one!” Now, the girl is almost mine. All that happens next is to say no. “No, you entertain me.” “Why don’t you show me something cool.” When they come up with nothing, I excuse myself for a moment while they think of something.

That last bit throws everyone, especially when they are used to people stopping at nothing to impress them. It’s a power shift. So is this how you should play out your first dates? Of course not. The idea here is to underscore how important psychology is to the dating scene. These things illustrate the first impression, intrigue and impressing your date perfectly, and if you apply them a bit less aggressively, while staying true to yourself, you’ll be able to set the stage for an easy going, and successful, first date.

Talk Soon,

Phil
Meet Market Adventures Relationship Expert

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