The summertime is warm, and full of chances to get out on the patio and hang at the beach. The fall is full of gorgeous scenery, if you’re into the changing colors, but also comes with muggy weather. The winter is cold, but brings about some unique activities and festivals. Then the spring can be very enjoyable, though many wait their way through it in hopes of an early summer.
Of all of these seasons, which is the best for singles? Which provides the best environment to meet people and go on dates? Opinions vary, of course, but let’s take a bit of a closer look.
Single in the summer – When you’re single in the summer you’ll find that everyone, including you, is happiest. Single men and single women try harder to stay in shape, and they all tend to make an effort to dress more sexy, as summer clothes lend themselves more to this. Then there are just so many things to do. Rooftop singles parties, days at the beach and sporting events abound.
Single in the fall – When you are single in the autumn, things tend to get a little more dull. Even when the weather is great, people have already put it in their heads that the weather stinks, and so there are less exciting things planned. People also tend to have a feeling consuming them that something good is over. As a season, it doesn’t lend itself to very much for singles.
Single in the winter – The winter can be good or bad for singles. People go out less, and so it’s harder to find places to meet people, but once you start dating a whole new world opens up. Especially in colder cities, it’s the winter that’s most likely to land you a get-out-of-town date, when you invite a new love interest to a warmer place for the weekend.
Single in the spring – The spring is great for singles. It’s when we all start getting ready to come out of our shells again. Women tend to be hitting the gym more often to get ready for swimsuit season, which means the adrenaline is more likely to be pumping and telling them they are attractive and letting others know they are full of life.
What season has treated you best as a single? Do you live in a city where one season makes a big difference over the next, or is the weather pretty much the same year round? To share your thoughts, just click the link below and add a comment.
Until Next Time,
Phil
Meet Market Adventures Dating Expert
phil@meetmarketadventures.com
If you think your date may be lying to you, she probably is. One of the most common mistakes men make is to ignore the warnings signs that their date isn’t telling the truth. Failing to recognize some signs she is lying may mean you end up regretting the time you wasted dating her in the first place.
The fact is that we all tell small white lies, usually to prevent another person from getting hurt.
Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating advises “If your date is crossing the line into more complex lying habits you really should pay attention. You can always call her out but first you have to recognize the simple signs that her story does not add up.”
Your Date May Be Lying If:
• Body language: Is she fidgeting a lot? Does she cover her mouth or raise her eyebrows when she answers a question? Research shows that there are actual physical actions a liar will perform.
• Change in voice: It is fairly common for someone who is lying to exhibit voice changes. It could be stumbling over their words or not speaking very clearly.
• Defensive: If she is defensive and tries to deflect your questions, that is a definite sign of lying. She may even get down right nasty to try and get you to back down. It is a sign she is in a corner and people in corners usually go into fight or flight mode.
• Change of subject: You have noticed your lady is contradicting herself and you call her on it. She immediately tries to change the subject or tries to seduce you to get you to stop questioning her.
“It is always best to trust your gut. If something seems off do not ignore your feelings.” suggests Ashok, an expert on Indian dating do’s and don’ts.
You may want to spend some time alone to think through the potential lies you suspect she has been telling you. If she shows any of the signs above then you had better end it now.
If she will not come clean it could mean she has a serious personality problem. Why waste your time? There are plenty of women who value honesty out there.
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The summer has come to an end, but that doesn’t mean your fitness regiment should end as well. Of course you don’t want it to, and have probably sworn that you’ll keep things up through fall and winter, chances are things won’t work that way. Year after year, people pull themselves together for the summer and then fall apart in its end.
The summer is filled with cycling, swimming and jogging. It’s full of sports played with friends. Most importantly, it’s filled with fitness activities that are fun in and of themselves. These are activities that many of us would do even if we weren’t consciously trying to stay in shape. Once the warm months fizzle, we have to exercise for the sake of exercising.
A good idea for everyone is to start planning their fitness programs right away. While you’re still able to enjoy the last summer-like days of the year, and get a chance to exercise as you have been doing, feed off that energy and plan your winter. Figure out what activities you’ll do, and figure out when to do them.
An even better idea is to do just that, but with a friend. Have a friend plan with you, so you’ll not only get good ideas, but you’ll get extra motivation. And, if you plan to follow a fitness regiment throughout the non summer months with this friend, you’ll find it’s more encouraging than simply telling yourself to get out and to the gym.
Get out there now, and arm yourself with a gym membership, if you must, and signups for fun exercise programs. Many of them exist, and by shaping them like pleasant activities, people are more likely to follow through with them. Find things that you will look forward to as much as you’ve looked forward to your summer exercise.
What do you have planned to help you stay in shape all winter? Let us know. Just add a comment below and tell us about your gym plans, whether you plan on joining exercise groups or if you are going to keep up with the jogging or cycling you’ve been doing even when the cold comes in. Click the link below to share your thoughts.
Until Next Time,
Phil
Meet Market Adventures Dating Expert
phil@meetmarketadventures.com
It doesn’t matter if you’re a woman or a man, a single or a person in a relationship, the feelings surrounding weight tend to be the same all around. It’s something that a lot of us have trouble keeping on top of, the numbers on the scale grow, and we then do or do not make an effort to reverse it. Then there’s the rest, the people who don’t necessarily have any weight to lose, but can’t seem to see that for themselves.
I know of several people who’ve been to a gym, not just one specific gym, to consider a membership. They’ve been given a free assessment and wound up spending a fortune on things they really don’t want. Worse, they spend it on a whole bunch of things that they truly do not need.
Why do they end up doing that? Why can’t they just say no to things like a personal trainer, customized workout plans and diet foods galore? It’s because their gyms, in the assessment, don’t shy away from calling them fat. Now, if it were a matter of tough love and getting someone who needed to lose weight to recognize it, it would be one thing. Here it’s totally different.
These friends I speak of aren’t fat. None of them are toothpicks, mind you, but to say that they are of a weight that would make anyone even think of the word unattractive would be a mistake. More than that, to think that a doctor would be suggesting they do something about their weight is just unthinkable. They aren’t fat, they just didn’t have that toothpick shape. Even then, I doubt they’d have heard different.
Gyms are into sales. It’s what they do. They aren’t about getting you in shape so much as they are about making sales. They make sales by telling you all the things that will get you behind that treadmill and keep you there. It makes me wonder how much the overweight epidemic is real and how much it’s just in the gyms and the papers.
Who out there has been called fat by their gym or anyone else trying to get them to spend money? Did you believe it, and should you have believed it? Add a comment below and let us know what you think about this.
Until Next Time,
Phil
Meet Market Adventures Dating Expert
phil@meetmarketadventures.com
No matter what the topic, there can be an age related twist given to it. Is it better to be young or old? Whatever you’re talking about this could be a vibrant discussion. Is it better to be educated when young or old, is it better to get a new job when you’re young or when you’re old and is it better to be a consumer when you’re young or old?
Here’s another one though. When it comes to being single, when is the best time? Is it in youth or is it in midlife? Is it some other time altogether? After asking around we’ve received all kinds of answers. Few people have been picking their own age group though, opting for another period of life to point towards.
Teenagers for instance, get to be single at a time when there are a lot less burdens. Sure, they don’t recognize this at the time and would protest the thought, but they have more of a chance to focus on the dating as opposed to other things in life. They also have the luxury of not being weighted down by a need to commit.
When we enter our twenties, things seem to be prime for singles. Many are professionals and can afford to go on proper dates. They are experienced enough to know what they’re doing, but young enough to enjoy making mistakes. Of course, many find themselves under the gun, being pressured to settle down at a time when they feel they should do anything but.
In the thirties, being single tends to have all the pressure. Marriage is always on the minds of people going out on dates. In older groups though, the single life becomes a strange mix of people who are happy to be single, and people who have only just recently become single again. Is that good or bad?
Now, do these opinions come from the grass is always greener frame of mind, or are they based on something more substantial? Let us know what you think. Just add a comment by clicking the link below, and help continue the conversation.
Until Next Time,
Phil
Meet Market Adventures Dating Expert
phil@meetmarketadventures.com
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