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- Eyes Green
Height 5' 4"
Body Type Slender
Marital Status Single
- Smoke Occasionally
Activity Level Somewhat active
Have Kids No
Want Kids Definitely
Work Type Medical/Dental/Veterinary/Fitness
Education Some college
Religion Christian / Other
Ethnicity White / Caucasian
- I'm Looking for
- Men between the ages of 28 and 36
- I'm Interested in
- Dating, A long term relationship, Activity partner, Friendship, Marriage
- My Interests
- Cottage Get Away
- Dinner Cruises
- Horseback Riding
- Rock Climbing
- Sea Kayaking
- Single Parties
- Single Vacations
- White Water Rafting
- Wine Tours
- Adventure Sports
- Arts and Crafts
- Beer, Wine and Spirits
- Informative Classes
- Day Outings
- Foreign Languages
- Indoor Sports
- Outdoor Sports
- Social Events
- Volunteer Work
- About me
- Hello! My name is Rae:) I am a sweet, kind, gentle and considerate person. I tend to be introverted in temperament and nature, contemplative and maybe a bit quiet:), but I am also very adaptable and enjoy ample oppourtunities to socialize, get out and do things, see and be seen. I am creative, expressive and unique.
I am currently in the process of "finding myself, as I'm sure we all are, but this is something that I am actively pursuing by way of reading, meditation, increasing varied experience, goal setting, seeking meaningful, emotionally supportive relationships and creating simple, quality. beautiful experiences in everyday life.
The passions that are motivating me right now are learning skills and hobbies that can help others. I am a nurse, and I want to live a life that empowers and strengthens others. I am working towards finishing the massage therapy program and becoming a herbalist. I adore plants, especially veggies and herbs, and fully intend on gardening into my late years. As this puts me in such close proximity with delicious foods, I think I could also list cooking as a passion :). I am interested in becoming an advocate for composting and urban gardening, as I think they can greatly improve the quality of people's lives. I intend to spend my life very much in contact with nature and in community with others.
I am also interested in becoming an advocate for women's rights. Many of my caring interests are aimed towards the mother-child dyad, and I intend to spend some portion of my life, here and overseas, advancing these interests. I believe that it is important to spend time making a positive impact in someone else's life.
Things that I would enjoy doing with someone else would be a long list. I love watching movies or reading books and discussing them, over dinner and drinks. The ideal experience for this, in my opinion, would be spending a day marathoning movies and cooking delicious food, simple beautiful things, and giving lots of time to explore eachother. I actually love the whole idea of "spending a day" doing anything. Creating a thoughtful, intimate experience specifically set aside for someone is a lovely gift, and I find that it is easier for me to open up and bond with someone if I can spend longer periods of time with them. I like spending time outside, going for walks and to the mountains, although part of the objective for those is looking at plants and foraging! I am also interested in taking survival courses and rock climbing and such in the mountains.
Going to galleries, theatre, live music and lectures or courses on things I am / we are both interested in are all also high on my list.
What makes sharing all of these experiences really valuable to me is talking about them. Being able to communicate openly and without judgement, and express feelings is the best way for me to learn about others and to teach others about me. This is important:)
- What I'm looking for
- I am looking for someone who is balanced, open and understanding, gentle and patient.
Someone who can express themselves and still be respectful of differing opinions. I am looking for someone who can talk about their feelings, and, well, about everything. It doesn't always have to be gushy ;) In fact, it is just as important to be willing to talk about the uncomfortable ones, even though its uncomfortable. But if you are afraid of or uncomfortable with emotion, I'm probably not a good fit.
Obviously, with all the things that I have listed as important to me, it needs to be someone who either also finds those things to be important and interesting, or a least sees value in them and can be supportive, or mirror them or balance them in some way.
The things that are important to me often involve caring for others. This means that the person I am with needs to be able to help and care for others as well, but also, someone who is willing and able to take care of me at times. And of course I intend to take very good care of him as well.
Someone creative, romantic and driven by values. Musical and artistic are definite pluses.
Having someone who does little things to let me know that they are thinking of me makes me feel important and secure.
I am looking for someone to get me out and try new things, and who can also be supportive and understanding when I need to do things in my own way.
There are many, many things on my list for "the perfect partner," but I don't think of myself as rigid: I don't need them all, at the very least not all of the time and I'm sure he will have many qualities that I had never even thought of or knew that I liked. I also fully acknowledge that people are human and fallable, and I include myself there. I'm not looking for a perfect person, but the right one for me. Please know that I try to only expect things from others that I can also reasonably provide, although I do think that striving for more is important from everyone.
As far as things that I don't find attractive, machismo, jealousy, a hot temper and physical aggression are on the top of my list. I love strength and passion, although my definitions of those may be different than many, but feeling threatened, degraded or controlled will push me away quite quickly.
What I am really looking for is that connection, intimacy, a great love than can be adaptable and stand through time. Someone to stand beside and create a beautiful life.
Other than that, ;) I am pretty open to finding out who you are, what makes you, you. There is beauty everywhere.
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