Genuine, fun woman wants to meet fun man for friendship & possibly more....
49 yrs old
Eyes Brown Hair Black Height 5' 3" Body Type Athletic and toned Marital Status Single
Smoke Never Drink Occasionally Activity Level Very active Have Kids No Want Kids Someday Work Type Education/Teacher/Professor Education Bachlors degree Religion Spiritual but not religious Ethnicity Asian
I'm Looking for
Men between the ages of 35 and 47
I'm Interested in
Dating, A long term relationship, Activity partner, Friendship, Marriage
Cottage Get Away
White Water Rafting
Beer, Wine and Spirits
I am most passionate about spending quality time with my family, friends and that special man that is out there but I haven't yet found. I love sharing my sense of humour, laughter, quiet times snuggling anywhere, movies (cinema & dvd), travel, adventures and my passion with the "one". I am an honest, respectful, trustworthy, committed, genuine, compassionate, romantic, sensual, adventurous, and sometimes shy, woman. I get along with almost everyone that I meet and I am only shy when I first meet you. I come out of my shell when I get to know you better but I still remain the same person; I don't change when I get comfortable with you. I am comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt or can get dressed up for a fun/romantic night out. I can even drive stick well!
I have been told that I am cute, hot, sexy, and have a great sense of humour and personality. However, I can be serious when I need to be. Not to seem conceited, but that is what I am told, honestly. I am a hard-working, career-oriented professional that is financially stable, although I don't flaunt it. I enjoy all types of music, from classical, rock, hip-hop, R&B, dance, disco and pop, etc. It all depends on my mood. I enjoy dancing, billiards, playing many sports (indoor and outdoor), and spending time with that special someone, family and friends. I am willing to try any activity at least once before I form an opinion. I am open-minded and do not judge people. I accept people for who they are, usually have a positive outlook on life and people that I meet (until they prove me wrong).
I live a healthy lifestyle by eating healthy food and working out at the gym 4 or more times a week. Although it is difficult to lift weights on my own, would rather have a gym partner to help me. I am here to make friends with good hearts first and if there is chemistry, then eventually look for a long-term relationship. I am not here to sleep with men on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date, maybe longer. I am new to all this dating and don`t know what to expect. It has been my experience that there are some people out there who just want to "play" with me and have "friendship with benefits" and are not really serious about finding the right soulmate. I am not here to play games with anyone and I am pretty much an open book (but not totally flapping in the air); that is, what you see, is what you get. I do not like being played either. Sorry, I thought you should know the truth. I am really no good at acting, that's for sure.
I have many endearing qualities that can only be experienced by meeting me and not just through IM or email. I get a better feel for you if I can talk to you, see your body language and facial expressions. :-) I am sure you would too! If any of my profile intrigues or interests you, send me a message and let me know that you would like to meet me for a coffee/drink. I hope to hear from you! Have a great day!!
What I'm looking for
I am looking for a man who is honest, truthful, compassionate, loving, romantic, open-minded, has a great sense of humour, (sometimes off-the-wall), and shares similar interests as me. I don`t really have a particular "type", per say, but would prefer for you to have similar characteristics and values as me. I value respect very much and feel that it is earned not demanded. I don`t expect you to see eye-to-eye with me on everything but having different opinions makes a relationship work where we can learn from each other. I believe in life-long learning, where you and I will be like sponges to absorb/learn anything and everything when the opportunities come up.
You should be a career-oriented, professional as well. You know what and where you want to be in life and not take it too seriously all the time. I do not make my opinions on people based on looks alone and neither should you, please. Your personality and sense of humour play a big part in the attraction factor as well. I do realize that looks are not everything but you must agree with me that it is part of that "chemistry" attraction aspect of dating and a successful relationship. You are not into any game playing but be totally honest with me with regards to your intentions of being here. If you only want to "play" with me or want a one-night-stand, and not take me seriously, then you need not respond please.