Being comfortable in any situation will allow you to have fun wherever you are. The number one way to be at ease is to be confident. No matter who you are or where you are, men pick up on confidence. If you walk into a room feeling like a million dollars, people will notice you.
You have to constantly have a smile on your face. Think of a smile like your wallet. When you leave your home you wouldn’t walk out without your wallet. So, don't go anywhere without your smile.
It is important to have a sense of style. You should be dressed as if you are a celebrity. If you were famous, you would never leave the house unless you look your absolute best. The same goes for any social situation you find yourself in. The minute you walk outside your front door, you should look like a superstar.
The next thing to keep in mind is to be polite. No one likes a rude person. You should always be nice to others because people will recognize it. If you are exceptionally polite, you will be complimented on your kindness.
To ensure that you feel at ease in any situation, make sure you are positive. No one wants to be around a Debbie downer. If you are optimistic and have good energy, others will want to be around you. Remember, everyone enjoys being surrounded by happy people.
Good posture is something that is often forgotten. You should always stand up straight to show you are proud of yourself. You own your body, so let everyone know that it’s yours. Do you ever see a person with great posture and think they look very elegant? Well if you are mindful of your posture, you can be that person too!
In addition to your natural beauty, your brain is an important part of you. You should have conversations about subjects you are familiar with. Show off your knowledge. Both men and women are attracted to intelligent people. Wisdom is sexy.
Femininity is another quality that men love. Keep in mind that masculinity is not attractive. If you are gentle and soft spoken, you will stand out in a crowd.
Another way to ensure that you feel comfortable in any situation is to make a friend. Women will be your best friend if you let them. Go up to a woman and compliment her on her lipstick or shoes. Ask her where she bought them and I guarantee she will want to be your friend.
Last but not least, wittiness can add to your comfort level. Humor is a characteristic that is appreciated in every culture. If you tell a funny joke and someone overhears it, they will want to talk to you. If you want to be comfortable in any situation, be funny. Everyone loves funny.
By Carly Spindel